08 8 / 2011
Hey, Chelsea! Ever considered doing more movies? I think you’d do great in indie movies. You’ve got a lot of spunk. Also, I love your floral shoulder tattoo. By the way, any chance you’ll be making video blogs again?
OK, as for movies, I have a cameo in The Collection, so keep an eye out for that. Other than that, I dont know….I guess we will just wait and see. I don’t really do auditions or readings or anything. I just wait to see what happens in life.
As for my tattoo, thanks.
Video blogs? maybe. I put some shit up with my room mate on my new youtube channel sometimes. The username is ChelseaSamwich.
08 8 / 2011
Someone else previously asked for an autograph. May I ask for the same? If so I’ll send details via gmail.
Im the worst with autographs. I always promise I’ll send them, and I never do. I never get pictures printed. If you had something you wanted me to sign specifically, I could give you an address, and you could send me a self addressed, stamped envelope with it, and I could sign it and send it back, but I honestly probably wont ever get glossies printed for signing.
08 8 / 2011
What are 3 beliefs/characteristics/traits etc….. that people don’t know about Miss Richards?
-I guess some people know that Im vegan, but not everyone. That’s really important to me. It’s for the animals.
-i get along with women MUCH better than I do with men. Other than at work, I kind of have no idea what to say.
-I love yoga and meditation. It sounds so cheesy, but I live in a pretty insane town, and my job makes me crazy, so some meditation, quiet time, and stretching is super therapeutic to me.
08 8 / 2011
who took the time to know who you are already know that you are compassionate… for all the others… well it’s their loss!!!;-) Have a good week!!! Also, thanks for taking the time to answer my questions….
:) thanks.
07 8 / 2011
If for some unexplained reason you were no longer here…. for which I would be sad:-(…How would you like to be remembered? Do you currently feel that you are living up to those standards on how you will be remembered?
I guess I just want to be remembered as compassionate. I think that it’s really unfortunate, but being a dancer, most people scan over every other thing about my personality—as if my occupation is all-telling about my character. So I guess, no I won’t be remembered the way I’d like to be (if I were to die today), but I don’t think that it’s my doing. I think it’s the sick culture we live in.
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08 6 / 2011
When you 1st started dancing, what were the skill requirements? Were you good at pole dancing? I’m a little intimidated to start.
Starting dancing is something that I would tell 90% of girls not to do. It’s REALLY intimidating and, depending on the city and the club, the girls can be really terrible to newbies. The most important things walking into a club for your first time are the following, in my opinion.
1) Be humble. Girls that have been dancing 10+ years are starting to see their money dwindle. New girls are a threat to their income, and regardless of whether you think they’re washed up or not, they have put up with a lot of bullshit in their time, and here you come, wobbling in your 6 inch heels, making more than they do. They may seem like bitches, but the truth is that they are just scared, and when a stripper is scared of losing her money, and a new girl has an attitude, skulls get punctured with stilettos.
2) Don’t get drunk. You will be nervous. Alcohol *may* cure that, but it will definitely also make you look like an idiot. Drinking at work is something I never recommend, but if you must, wait until youre a little more comfortable in your new surroundings.
3) Dont be too friendly to girls. No one wants to talk to you. Smile and speak when spoken to for the first month or so. Earn respect by having etiquette. Don’t wait for girls to go on stage and then steal their customers. Dont approach guys at the tip rail. Tip the girls on stage that you think are pretty.
4) Make alliances with money. Dont ever be the girl who tips the DJ or hospitality the minimum unless you really cant afford to tip more.
5) Start a savings instead of buying fancy shoes.
6) Make sure your gstring covers EVERYTHING. I like these:
http://www.snaz75.com/bz-1162-sl.html
double up until youre used to them.
7) Dont try and steal other people’s stage moves too blatantly. Watch, but don’t stare, and only do the ones that look simple. Practice at home. Don’t bother with the pole, just use it for stability. When in doubt, bend over and show your butt, or lie and the ground and arch your back as much as you can. Slow dancing > fast. Practice at home.
8) Be honest with customers. They’ll love that you’re brand new. But dont get attached to the newbie money. It only lasts 6 months. SAVE SOME.
Be careful, and realize that your life is about to change. Be sure that you are ready. If you have any more ?s, feel free to post.
26 4 / 2011
Have you attended college?
Yeah, I actually went to quite a few schools, but I studied mostly at Arizona State. I never got my degree. I dropped out of school to work for an adult company at 22. I also went to aesthetics school last year.
26 4 / 2011
Is there an adult worker hierarchy? Do strippers see themselves as superior to nude models? Models superior to porn stars? Porn stars superior to camgirls? Everyone superior to prostitutes? Or…not so much?
Of course. It’s a bunch of people doing something that they’ve been told their entire lives is wrong. In orde to alleviate the feeling of guilt, many sex workers turn and point fingers at other types of sex workers, or even the same type but with a different set of personal limitations. I’ve never worked at a club where there wasn’t at least one girl who was labeled “dirty” for giving more intimate private dances than others. Cam girls say they could never work at a table top club and be touched by strangers, dancers say they’d never masturbate on the internet, porn girls think they’re better than everyone, and escorts get a bad wrap across the board. I think we are all just people fighting battles and doing what we have to do or what we want to do and just getting by. I support all men, women, and transgendered people in the adult industry and I hope especially that those who are victims of violence and forced sex work get the support that they need from their community (us) to feel empowered and make their own choice.
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25 4 / 2011
I’d like to move to Arizona to undergo strict training in preparation for becoming a useful addition to your household. May I have your address please?
You can move to Arizona but you definitely won’t find me there, I live in New Orleans and definitely won’t give you my address.
